2017 Men’s Conference @ROLCC – Fishercoder

2017 Men's Conference @ROLCC – Fishercoder

• Sources of pressure: family, job, connections, etc.
• How to win over pressure:
• Belief in God (确认主的同在)
• Removal of pessimism (除去消极思想)
• Be committed in routine (在小事上忠心)
• Pray for God's lead (祷告寻求神的带领)
• What if we fail:
• Accept truth (接受事实)
• Be humble to learn (存谦卑的心学习)
• Faith in God's ability (确信神永不误事)
• Questions to discuss in your group:
• What's the most pressing pressure you're facing right now? (在你现在的环境中，你所面对最大的压力是什么？)
• What's your normal way of handling pressure? Is it effective? (你通常面对压力的方法是什么？有效么？)

• What's the most helpful message you heard today? (你觉得今天的信息对你最有帮助的一点是什么？)

• Success

• How do you define success? (什么是成功?)

• Principles of being successful:
• (认识自己的长处与短处)
• (要有清楚的目标)
• 学习做一个解决问题的人
• 不要怕失败
• 要有热情
• 要为每天的生活做选择
• 从成功到有意义
• 从物质到价值
• 从追求到给予
• 从堆积到培育
• 讨论问题
• 请分享一下你现阶段的生命目标？什么是你的热情所在？你觉得最大的难处是什么？

• 有哪些事是你正在做来达成目标，去除拦阻的？

• Connections

• A good web of connections is the KEY to happiness

• Principles of dealing with connections:
• In family:
• What they want is your time and attention! Put your laptop and cellphones away! Just spend time with them!
• Love your wife, never ignore her
• 爱，就是用心去注意她
• 要常纪念妻子的爱与付出
• 爱火是可以重燃的
• Be kind/nice/patient to your wife, your children will mimic you and have the same attitude to their mom
• If you're rude, inpatient to your wife, then your children will be the same to their mom, and then their future spouses, this will have permanent damage!
• 要教养你的儿女，不要缺席
• 明白"属灵的头"的角色
• 用生活的榜样来教导
• 按孩子的需要来带领
• 要花时间陪伴他们
• Have daddy-daughter date time! Set it up as a weekly routine, just spend time together, no interruptions, this is the key to building a strong parent-child relationship!
• In workplace:
• 要学习与人相处共事
• 对上司保持良好的沟通
• 对同事保持团队的互动
• 要选择你要相处的人群
• 要学习去帮助别人
• 关系就是通路
• Questions to discuss in your small group:

• In your personal life, what's your most tough questions in handling connections/relationships?

• Wealth

• Wealth for Christians

• Principles for Christians wealth manangement:
• 确认神是我们一切所有的主
• 作神忠心又有见识的管家
• 要殷勤筹划
• 要慷慨奉献
• 要拜托债务
• 储蓄与投资
• 投资在永恒
• 提早退休，投身服事
• 遗产规划，让钱财被神所使用

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