朋友圈的负能量:只要你过得没我好 �C 熊哥club



朋友圈的负能量:只要你过得没我好 �C 熊哥club

陌生人之间容易产生赞美,而熟人之间,除了上一代长辈外,最容易产生的,是嫉妒。

因为陌生人离你远,你的优秀符合他们对这个世界上总存在的优秀的人的认知,可以平静的接受甚至成为学习的榜样。

而熟人离你近,你们成长经历类似,你的好容易变成一种讨厌的镜子和参照物。反射出他们过的不好或者失败。

中国人本身就缺乏真诚为别人鼓掌的大气,更何况没有比较就没有伤害,当你表现的太好,你和你的朋友之间绝对是产生的嫉妒多于赞美。

 

大多数朋友愿意跟你共患难,少数人才有能力和你共享福。多数人喜欢充当安慰别人的角色,而不愿看到周围人比自己过的好。所以才会有"你有什么不开心的事儿说出来,让大家开心一下"的段子。因为,对于大多数人来说,内心的潜台词是:只要你过得没我好,就好。


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